During one year in my Primary School days we were taken to see a movie called "The Inn of the Sixth Happiness" about a nice Christian missionary Gladys Aylward. So just out of perhaps self defence and also in keeping up with the Joneses I called myself "Gladys" secretly and from then on wrote my name Gladys XXX on every book I owned! I have been inspired to do good in God forsaken land since then.
Later in secondary school a few friends who were more than cheeky and very biased ....told me that that name was very old fashion and it was for a woman of 60 years of age. Poor silly me but no less still starry eyed...added Yvonne to my name because that was the only nice name I could find beginning with a "Y".. Well now I do smile..YG...and not YC were my special initials a long time ago...Those were the days.
Today I am more confident with my Chinese birth name and absolutely happy with just one single word as my name (which coincidentally means Happiness in Chinese) and a surname to say which Chinese clan I belong to. I do not carry a middle Chinese generation name. I don't care if some of my Chang (Zhang) ancestors were bandits or men of ill repute in Chinese history. I am sure up the line there were fabulously good people!!
Below is some info on the book and the movie from which I got my Christian name .
My literature teacher taught me to differentiate very critically facts from fiction and he asked us to use a movie based on a book we have read to do some research. So I studied this particular book and watched the movie again to write the essay. I often in later years used this book and the movie to help my own English students to differentiate facts from fiction. That skill is still very important to me today.
Gladys Aylward in cheongsam when she was older
The Chinese wish each other five happinesses: wealth, longevity, good health, virtue, and a peaceful death in old age. The sixth happiness one must decide for oneself.
The movie, The Inn of the Sixth Happiness is based on a real life story— that of the Englishwoman Gladys Aylward (1902-70), who in 1930 went off to China to ‘serve’ the people there. 40 years after her death, she is regarded as something of a national heroine.
Ingrid Bergman played Gladys in the movie which included some fictionalised scenes and storyline. In real life Gladys Aylward was dissappointed with the movie:
I still have a copy of the book so if any one in Miri wants to read it you can borrow it from me. And I am sure one day I will be able to get a copy of the DVD version of the movie and watch Ingrid Bergman once again.
With Ching Ming coming soon I think of relatives and friends who have gone before me... They have left their names on their tomb stones. And most of them did not bring their adopted names to the next world because their relatives only "carved" THEIR CHINESE NAMES ON THE TOMBSTONES.